Sunday, June 7, 2009

Gay Marriage Or Father’s Rights? Which Is More Important?

There is a huge debate right now over whether people of the same sex should have the same right to marry as people of opposite sexes.  People on both sides of the debate say that it involves the “definition of marriage.”  But whatever happened to the definition of FAMILY??

Too often, when parents split up - either through divorce or just ending a relationship - the mother takes the attitude of “I divorced you, the kids divorced you.”  Father’s parenting time becomes an after-thought, not the priority it deserves.  Dad’s right to have input into how his children are raised, decisions about their education and health, and his moral and experiential guidance are given no respect. Because, according to these mothers - and to the judges who preside over these cases, and the lawyers who argue them, and the social workers and counselors who stick their noses in - this just is not a family anymore.

(In the interest of fairness, I must mention that there are many split-families that actually do work.  Kudois to you and you are not the focus of this post.)

But gay marriage can get big donors and big organizations to spend lots of money lobbying.  It can be pitched as a human rights issue or a breakdown of society issue.  You can have little sound bites of celebrities for and against the issue.

But what big money organization is going to lobby for fathers?  Who thinks fathers have “human rights” - especially when the current political climate is “it takes a village (and specifically NOT a father) to raise a child”?  What celebrity is going to speak out on the heartbreak of getting screwed in court (when they can afford the $600 per hour lawyers to make sure it doesn’t happen to THEM)????

Sorry Dads.  You are on your own.  It’s just and your lawyer and the court you happen to be in.

So how can you even the playing field?

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Posted by Freeman at 14:48:15
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